Hi Toycollector, I see you have answers for part 1 of your original questions. Did you solve part 2 yet? why your hot water pressure has been dropping over the years??
I love a good old fashioned plumbing problem like this so thought I would add my opinion
If it was me and judging by what you have already posted, your new water pipe from the boundary to the house has all been replaced, no galv. I would replace every bit of remaining galv pipe if any remaining that carries water under the floor of your home to the hot water cylinder inlet/ pressure reducing valve. Then if your pressure is still low for your hot water & it is not from a blocked shower rose or shower mixer or anything silly like that you then know your cold water supply is not to blame. I would then suggest replacing the pipework for the hot water, directly from the cylinder outlet either in full or as much is as able to be reached, or perhaps just to the most affected outlet for now which Im guessing is your shower. I would also check there is not a build up restricting flow on the 20mm threaded fittings on the hot water cylinders inlet and outlet as I have seen this before. I am surprised to read neither of your first two plumbers did a flow check. Based on mains supply pressure they should be able to calculate an acceptable flow rate to the pressure reducing valve for example or any other outlet and advise on pipe replacement etc.
Change the PRV, check the filter and give up??? Seems like incomplete service to me.Lastly I would inspect your toby out on the boundary, if it looks very dated it may have been there for decades. If it does not shut off 100% either which many do not, phone the council to report it and ask to have it replaced as you have plumbing work to do.
Even if it is difficult to turn you can get it replaced, Ive worked as a plumber and a water network contractor and we get calls like this on the network all the time.Council contractors will replace your toby at no charge to you, and the surround/ riser and toby lid if required. Also if the pipe from the main in the street to your toby is also galv or copper they will replace all of this also usually, (well we do where i live in north island anyway, although every council is different.)
It doesnt hurt to try it on. As a plumber I have had jobs where the galv has rusted up on the council side thus cutting the flow of water right down to a property. To the untrained eye the pressure looks fine but it is the "flow rate" you are interested in. As a water network contractor I have seen this also with galv, very common. Galv restricts water flow over time by forming rust on the internal lining of the pipe as water has oxygen in it, the two things needed for rust to form, copper seems to stay the same but suffers from pipe wall softening and pinhole leaks.
Cheers